Lizzie Velasquez, now 26, credits a life of bullying for making
her the empowered motivational speaker she is today. Photo courtesy of “A
Brave Heart.”
For many teens, being dubbed the “World’s Ugliest
Woman” on a viral YouTube video
would be a blow to the esteem too huge to
recover from. But for Lizzie Velasquez — who was just 17 when she happened upon
that exact phrase about herself — the bullying insult became the powerful
motivator that helped her find her life’s purpose. And now she’s the subject of
a new documentary, A Brave Heart: The Lizzie Velasquez
Story.
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"If I ever see that person [who made the video] I
would jump on them and give them the biggest hug in the world and tell them,
‘Thank you for bringing the best thing that has ever happened to me in my
life,’ " Velasquez, 26, told People magazine this week. “That video changed
everything and it has given me the platform that I have now to be the voice for
anyone who’s ever been bullied — and not just myself.”
Valesquez, who weighs just around 60 pounds and is
blind in one eye due to a rare and unnamed syndrome that doesn’t allow her to
gain weight, used that video to become an anti-bullying activist and
motivational speaker. Her incredible ascension is documented in the new film,
which premiered earlier this month at SWSW in Austin, Tex.
“It went over so well with the kids in the audience,”
Tina Meier, founder and executive director of the anti-bullying Megan Meier Foundation,
who makes an appearance in the film, tells Yahoo Parenting. “Looking over at
Lizzie’s parents as they watched her up on that big screen, seeing how they
were so proud because they have gone through so much — it gave me goose bumps
just looking at them.” Tina lost her 13-year-old daughter Megan to suicide
following cyber bullying in 2006, and has been working through her
Missouri-based foundation ever since to help prevent others from going through
such tragedy. Working with Velasquez on the film to strengthen each other’s
message, she says, has been incredible.
“I think so many times
kids hear about ‘do this, don’t do this’ and it’s coming from adults,” Meier
says. “When they hear from someone like Lizzie, who has struggled so much but
then see what she’s been able to do, it’s such an inspiration. They see, if she
can do this, I can do this.”
A Brave Heart is the
inspiring result of a TEDx talk Velasquez gave in 2013, in which she discusses her
rare syndrome — she’s one of only two people in the world known to have it —
and the impact it’s had on her life, including the excessive bullying she’s
experienced. “Things have been scary, things have been tough… I’ve had to
deal with bullying a lot,” Velasquez, who was not available to speak with Yahoo
Parenting this week, explains in the TEDx video. She talks about how eager she
was to meet others on the first day of kindergarten, and how she had
“absolutely no idea” that she looked different until she saw how other kids
reacted to her.
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