TO DUMP OR NOT TO DUMP HIM? (PART ONE)

RULES FOR SINGLE LADIES

No matter how far you’ve gone in your relationship with a man, be careful to observe the direction in which the relationship is going. Always tell yourself the truth! Are there positive signs of intimacy, trust and commitment, or are all the signals you get from him and the relationship negative? Then, you should consider dumping him.

(ONE) Does he genuinely love you; is he nurturing and supportive of your vision, vocation or career? Does he want to see you succeed or is he in competition with you? If he is, DUMP HIM!!!

(TWO) Does he compare you to his ex-girlfriend or his mother? Does he imply in various ways that you don’t measure up to standard? Is he tolerating or celebrating you?.

(THREE) Is he seeing someone else on the side? Is he double dealing, unfaithful? Is it taking him forever to commit to you and you alone? If he is, he is not to be trusted DUMP HIM!!!

(FOUR) Is he always showering you with money even when you don’t need it? He may be trying to buy the relationship, to bring it under his control. You may be selling yourself into a slave relationship. DUMP HIM!!! (I KNOW MANY OF MY FEMALE READERS WILL NOT AGREE TO THIS ONE)

(FIVE) Does he threaten you with other relationships, that if you don’t concede to his demands, others gladly will? Well then, what is he waiting for? He should go to them. Get rid of him permanently. DUMP HIM!!! ..to be continued on Wednesday.

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