...I have since settled down to a new
lease of life. There is nothing more enjoyable than having a very understanding
woman as a wife. Aduke has shown herself to be a perfect example of a good
woman. Shortly after my arrival home, I had ordered the building of
new
structures at the back of my father’s compound even though the old ones were
left untouched. I purposely reserved them in remembrance of my loving parents,
to keep the memories of them evergreen.
Within three years of our stay
together, Aduke has given me two sets of twins and has remained loyal even
though I had taken on two more wives. One thing I have come to learn about
women is that all one needs to keep them in permanent calm is money. A rich man
can conveniently manage ten women under the same roof while a poor man will
always be met with stiff difficulty in trying to keep his only wife in check,
unless God helps him.
At first I had felt that Aduke alone
was enough as a wife for me but I was later to discover that she was always too
over saddled with work especially on the farm. Besides, at Orija, any wealthy
man who keeps only one wife is considered selfish and greedy, unwilling to make
his wealth felt by others. But marrying many wives is not all that it takes.
One has to maintain an atmosphere of love and harmony within his family for,
any serious quarrel between wives is frowned at. The family of such a man would
ridicule as his warring wives would be flogged round the village as a deterrent
to other families.
In the scheme of things, I did not
forget all those who had been good to me at one time or another in my journey
through life. First among them was Goroye. I had met him in a very terrible
condition, with his only wife threatening to leave him. The woman had even
packed her belongings away to another man’s house. It was the same unsavory
experience with every struggling man. But, I was able to ensure that things
changed for the better for him. I gave him one of my mats and even before my
very eyes I noticed too marriageable girls who were ready to marry him, even on
the same day.
God has actually fought for me. Even
before my arrival back at Orija, Pa Lapite had gone mad and all on his own
walked away, no doubt God’s judgment on a wicked man. His children however had
come around to welcome me home and I had been glad to see them as well as to
help them in every way I could. I am not without my own problem though. No
matter how scorching a sun is, there will be some little dark cloud just as
every cloud has a silver lining. No matter how blissful one’s life might be, it
certainly has its turbulent period. At times while walking, I am usually
haunted by the fear that the unknown hands are after me again, wishing to take
me back to the forest. This feeling occurs many a time when I am on the way to
my farm, and I would feel like having someone tie my shoulder somewhere so that
those fierce hands would not have any hold on them.
It was because of this problem that I
journeyed back to Alabidun to see baba Kanako again. Unfortunately the man had
died but the person who had succeeded him has assured me that I was as safe as
air, having passed all the spirit’s tests of endurance.
He also told me that having eaten all
the grains of the crying-monster, no human being could overpower me in any way
unless that man was ready to die. “Entertain no fear of any kind. No evil from
any man can befall you again. He who shakes the stumps shakes himself. The fire
intended to roast the vulture succeeds only with another bird. The warbler that
invokes rain carries the burden on its own head…”
But I must confess to you that in spite
of these guarantee, I am still full of fears. I am forever grateful to Eledumare
for crowning all my sufferings with success.
If a masquerade dances for twenty years
with neither money nor body of admirers to show for it, then, such masquerade
should be ignored and abandoned, and people’s attention and affections diverted
elsewhere. Through and through, I had come to realize that no matter whatever
happens, God does not leave his own people to suffer. His name be praised.
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