RULES FOR SINGLE LADIES - ARE YOU READY

RULES FOR SINGLE LADIES

(ONE) Pray. Ask the lord to look for qualities that will bring out the best in your relationship.

(TWO) Write a detailed list of the qualities you want to see in this man you intend to
spend the rest of your life with. After writing this list, pray over it daily until you see it answered.

(THREE) A married man is not whom you are looking for. No matter how attracted you are to a married man, no matter how caring he is, it will never work. He is unavailable, look elsewhere for a single and available man. However, if you persist in going after married men, you will definitely end up with a broken heart and bad reputation.

(FOUR) Go out to places, occasions, where the kind of man you desire will probably be. Become attractive in a department you like in church.

(FIVE) Don’t dress to kill unless you want to attract a user or an abuser into your life. Look good, not cheap. A guy is fist attracted to you by what you wear; look your best.

(SIX) Learn to be friendlier with people; it will open the opportunity for a relationship.

(SEVEN) When you locate the man you have believed for, let him be aware of you. Don’t be forward, pushy, aggressive or flirtatious. Do you have ‘chemistry’, or are you forcing it?

(EIGHT) Love hardly occurs at first sight. If you think you fell in love with him the moment you saw him, it is probably infatuation. Be careful not to build you future on a strong emotional rush that is temporal, untested by time or principles. Let your feelings be tested by time. The question you should ask yourself is “when I get to know him, will I still want him?”

(NINE) If he likes you, he will give you attention and spend time with you. He will be very interested in knowing you. Leave him to do the chase. You must learn to distinguish between a man who is just having a polite, social conversation with you and one who likes you.

(TEN) Men can be first attracted to you physically, but it must not end there. For you to have a healthy relationship, you must connect on the mental, emotional and spiritual levels of intimacy. If all he likes about you is looks and body, it is a dangerous ground to build a relationship on. He may like what he sees, but that doesn’t mean he is ready to commit to you, and a healthy relationship is all about commitment. If all you have to offer is your beauty and your body, that relationship is bound to fail.

Why does a man marry a woman confined to a wheel chair? He must see and desire something more than her body (Proverbs 31:30). A man must get something from you that he can’t get from elsewhere; that is character. Work on yourself spiritually, mentally and emotionally if you desire to have a great relationship.

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